Validation
Validation is extremely important. Firstly, the
abuse is not publically known and accepted. Secondly, it involves perpetrators
that are the ruling elite of a country and is within systemic corruption of
many government departments. Thirdly, it involves widespread and extremely
illegal activities. As different to say theft, having this abuse accepted can
be very difficult.
On the
positive side is that similar forms of abuse such as organised paedophilia and
within government departments is publically known and accepted, and that ritual
abuse is accepted by most in the counselling community, particularly those in
sexual assault.
Validation is extremely important on a personal
level. The memories, programming, accessing and deployment can be accepted by
friends, counsellors, concerned citizens etc and so the victim/survivor is not
alone. A part of the programming lies is that s/he is “making it up” or “is
crazy”, and therefore if s/he is invalidated then this programming is only
increased. Many victims/survivors are forced back into a programmed state or
are hospitalised because they are not believed.
It is really important for friends, non
offending family, partners, counsellors and concerned people to validate what
the victim/survivor is saying. Sometimes what the victim/survivor may not sense
at first as s/he is only getting small pieces and the bigger picture hasnt revealed itself yet. Be patient and
the victim/survivor will get the full understanding. If questioning, do it
supportively, so that a better understanding happens.
There are now many sources for validation. The
Internet has many webpages that describe the abuse and from many different
perspectives. There are also many books on GMC. Please see Literature
and Webpage Information.